How to say I Fancy You
The Risk-free Guide to Making the First Move

With the festive season well and truly over, thankfully all of the awkward Christmas office party and mistletoe moments are out of the way. Starting afresh in the New Year, perhaps that resolution should be to summon up the courage to communicate with that certain someone you’ve had your eye on. Fortunately, there's a fail-safe way of making your move with a well thought out Valentine's gift.

Be My Valentine...

If she’s caught your attention more than a few times, and you simply want to express your attraction, there’s a whole range of imaginitive ways to do so.  Having a gift sent to her home or work place removes all personal links, it can all be covered like a covert operation. Place your order and simply sit back and wait for her reaction – hopefully the kind of reaction you want!

Ordering with the TreatHer ensures your gift will be free of any identifiable labels, receipts, or anything else that might give away the surprise.  You can even have it all gift wrapped, with an enclosed gift tag bearing a suggestive message of your choice.

To ensure you make the right impression, though, a little thought should go into what you choose. Have a think about what’s appropriate for the occasion, the kind of message you want to convey, and what kinds of gifts your object of affection might appreciate.

The comedienne

When you're already friends, gifts that are a little suggestive, funny, or quirky can go down well.  Make the most of your good rapport with a light-hearted gesture that will make her laugh and smile.  She’ll enjoy the originality of the four heart frying pan, or the cheeky Paris duck massager, and if she’s sweet-toothed she’ll devour the Retro sweets gift box.

The beautiful stranger

If you’ve exchanged nothing more than a few longing gazes, you may need to consider a slightly more conventional delivery of your message. If you barely know each other, she’s bound to reflect your choice of gift upon your character. Opt for something with class and simplicity - you can’t go wrong with this heart shaped box of luxury chocolates, set of sensual bath truffles, or romantic bathing set.

The love interest

If you’re totally besotted, and really want to express how you feel, then give her an even more romantic sign of your affection.  Don't be shy to whisper your sweet nothings (but probably reserve the diamond ring for a later date!).  Show her you’re smitten with the pamper hamper, or a meaningful necklace such as the infinity twist or guardian angel locket.

The seductress

If you’re detecting some chemistry and want to heat things up a little, then why not give her the Kama Sutra weekend gift set, or the Lovers’ celebration box.  Packed full of tempting treats such as beautifully scented honey dust and massage oil, these are sure to pack a passionate punch! But for a slightly more subtle approach, she’s bound to appreciate the sensual gift of a pure silk chemise.

Unwrapping the mystery...

Once you’ve done your good deed, simply await her reaction with baited breath. If you’re lucky enough to witness her receiving the gift, then gauge her reaction and behave accordingly. If she hasn’t sussed you out, then you may want to consider a stronger hint!

If you aren’t there at the opportune moment, then make sure you’ve left her a suitably evocative yet mysterious message. Mention a shared joke or anecdote, sign off with your initials, or perhaps even add a special email address (bemyvalentine@treather.com has already been taken!) for her reply.

So remember, choose your gift wisely and trust Cupid (aka the TreatHer team) to do the rest.  On behalf of Cupid we wish you all the best and hope those arrows strike right on Valentine’s night!